我冰冷之心情写照: July 2011

Saturday, July 23, 2011

爱文章 [转]

真正的爱情，不是一见钟情，而是日久生情；真正的缘份，不是上天的安排，而是你的主动；真正的自卑，不是你不优秀，而是你把她想得太优秀；真正的关心，不是你认为好的就要求她改变，而是她的改变你是第一个发现的；真正的矛盾，不是她不理解你，而是你不会宽容她。

I was still running on the road, despite of large amount of people who over took me, or I over took who-so-ever, I just don't care. My focus was on the group of people 500m in front of me, or maybe, my attention was on that particular person. Somehow, I can strongly felt that, the dark side of me started to spilled over the other side.

Meta-morph IV

The three of us were using the idea that W suggested last time. So, I volunteered myself to be the first to wake up, then I will call S and S will call W, and W will call back me, this is to ensure all of us wake up. Smart huh?

Meta-morph III

It's ONE DAY BEFORE the run! I felt kinda different. Anxious? Exciting? Overwhelmed? I just can't tell what exactly it is. Can you?

Meta-morph II

A few days before the run, my buddy, W, had decided to join me for the Ipoh Run. After all, this might be his big challenge, since he never run this far, so am I. Haha.. It's just a few days before the run, W actually made up his mind to accept this brand new challenge in his life. Another friend of us, S, joined in the line as well. I was so overwhelming that my buddies were coming to the front line with me, willing to stand beside me. (touched~)

Meta-morph

I've been thinking, should I write this in English, or Mandarin? Hmm.. Maybe I should keep it in English, with a complete sentence. After all, this does help me in improving my language very much. Here's my story of metamorphism.

如果有一天你死了，我不会在娶别的女人

[转]

女生突然对男孩说：“如果有一天我死了，你会再娶其她女人吗?”

男孩说：“啊哦……也许会吧!这得等你真死了才能说。”

陌生人

或许不经意间你听到某个消息，
可是那又怎么样呢？

我们还是要过自己的生活，
而他的世界与你也早已无关了

分手后，
我还认识你，
不过不想再见你，
你过的好，
我不会祝福你，
你过的不好，
我不会嘲笑你。

因为我们从此陌生。

请原谅我对你伪装的冷漠，
不是装的洒脱或想的太多，
因为你让我懂最深的爱最沉默。

走过每个场景都是回忆，
我要怎么忘记？

看完这21个故事的人，你的想法会有所改变..

1.甲去买烟，烟29元，但他没火柴，跟店员说：“顺便送一盒火柴吧。”店员没给。
乙去买烟，烟29元，他也没火柴，跟店员说：“便宜一毛吧。”最后，他用这一毛买一盒火柴。
这是最简单的心理边际效应。第一种：店主认为自己在一个商品上赚钱了，另外一个没赚钱。赚钱感觉指数为1。第二种：店主认为两个商品都赚钱了，赚钱指数为2。当然心理倾向第二种了。同样，这种心理还表现在买一送一的花招上，顾客认为有一样东西不用付钱，就赚了，其实都是心理边际效应在作怪。
启示：变换一种方式往往能起到意想不到的效果! 通常很多事情换一种做法结果就不同了。人生道路上，改善心智模式和思维方式是很重要的。